confusion1

pic describing my current state. but it is satyaveer in the pic.

here is the confusion.
all of us want the same thing spiritually, at the end. mukti. mukti from this cycle of birth-death-birth. so many philosophies to guide. yet they are all different in their own ways. these days, there is also a steep rise in the hindu religious fanaticism and the sole purpose of following a particular path is missing. absolutely. 
now, i dont know how to put my confusion.
yet here i am.

dwaita says

यदि नमपरो न भवेत् श्री हरी 

      कथमस्य वशेत जगातेदभूत |

यदि नमनतस्य वशे सकलं 

      कथामेवत नित्य सुखं न भवेत ||

advaita says

|| अहम् ब्रह्मास्मि ||

people have followed both. achieved their goals. yet there is this difference. why so ?